成年人必看的六个故事教你学会做人

1只小猪、一只绵羊和一头乳牛，被关在同一个畜栏里。有一次，牧人捉住小猪，它大声号叫，猛烈地抗拒。绵羊和乳牛讨厌它的号叫，便说：「他常常捉我们，我们并不大呼小叫。小猪听了回答道：「捉你们和捉我完全是两回事，他捉你们，只是要你们的毛和乳汁，但是捉住我，却是要我的命呢! 　　立场不同、所处环境不同的人，很难了解对方的感受；因此对别人的失意、挫折、伤痛，不宜幸灾乐祸，而应要有关怀、了解的心情。要有宽容的心！ 2、靠自己 小蜗牛问妈妈：为什么我们从生下来，就要背负这个又硬又重的壳呢？ 　　妈妈：因为我们的身体没有骨骼的支撑，只能爬，又爬不快。所以要这个壳的保护！ 　　小蜗牛：毛虫姊姊没有骨头，也爬不快，为什么她却不用背这个又硬又重的壳呢？ 　　妈妈：因为毛虫姊姊能变成蝴蝶，天空会保护她啊。 　　小蜗牛：可是蚯蚓弟弟也没骨头爬不快，也不会变成蝴蝶他什么不背这个又硬又重的壳呢？ 　　妈妈：因为蚯蚓弟弟会钻土,大地会保护他啊。 　　小蜗牛哭了起来：我们好可怜，天空不保护，大地也不保护。 　　蜗牛妈妈安慰他：「所以我们有壳啊！」 　　我们不靠天，也不靠地，我们靠自己。 3、鲨鱼与鱼 曾有人做过实验，将一只最凶猛的鲨鱼和一群热带鱼放在同一个池子，然后用强化玻璃隔开，最初，鲨鱼每天不断冲撞那块看不到的玻璃，耐何这只是徒劳，它始终不能过到对面去，而实验人员每天都有放一些鲫鱼在池子里，所以鲨鱼也没缺少猎物，只是它仍想到对面去，想尝试那美丽的滋味，每天仍是不断的冲撞那块玻璃，它试了每个角落，每次都是用尽全力，但每次也总是弄的伤痕累累，有好几次都浑身破裂出血，持续了好一些日子，每当玻璃一出现裂痕，实验人员马上加上一块更厚的玻璃。 　　后来，鲨鱼不再冲撞那块玻璃了，对那些斑斓的热带鱼也不再在意，好像他们只是墙上会动的壁画，它开始等着每天固定会出现的鲫鱼，然后用他敏捷的本能进行狩猎，好像回到海中不可一世的凶狠霸气，但这一切只不过是假像罢了，实验到了最后的阶段，实验人员将玻璃取走，但鲨鱼却没有反应，每天仍是在固定的区域游着它不但对那些热带鱼视若无睹，甚至于当那些鲫鱼逃到那边去，他就立刻放弃追逐，说什么也不愿再过去，实验结束了，实验人员讥笑它是海里最懦弱的鱼。 　　可是失恋过的人都知道为什么，它怕痛。 4、神迹 法国一个偏僻的小镇，据传有一个特别灵验的水泉，常会出现神迹，可以医治各种疾病。有一天，一个拄着拐杖，少了一条腿的退伍军人，一跛一跛的走过镇上的马路，旁边的镇民带着同情的回吻说：「可怜的家伙，难道他要向上帝祈求再有一条腿吗??」这一句话被退伍的军人听到了，他转过身对他们说：「我不是要向上帝祈求有一条新的腿，而是要祈求他帮助我，叫我没有一条腿后，也知道如何过日子。」 　　试想：学习为所失去的感恩，也接纳失去的事实，不管人生的得与失，总是要让自已的生命充满了亮丽与光彩，不再为过去掉泪，努力的活出自己的生命。 5、钓竿 有个老人在河边钓鱼，一个小孩走过去看他钓鱼，老人技巧纯熟，所以没多久就钓上了满篓的鱼，老人见小孩很可爱，要把整篓的鱼送给他，小孩摇摇头，老人惊异的问道：「你为何不要？」小孩回答：「我想要你手中的钓竿。」老人问：「你要钓竿做什么？」小孩说：「这篓鱼没多久就吃完了，要是我有钓竿，我就可以自己钓，一辈子也吃不完。」 　　我想你一定会说：好聪明的小孩。错了，他如果只要钓竿，那他一条鱼也吃不到。因为，他不懂钓鱼的技巧，光有鱼竿是没用的，因为钓鱼重要的不在“钓竿”，而在“钓技”。 　　有太多人认为自己拥有了人生道上的钓竿，再也无惧于路上的风雨，如此，难免会跌倒于泥泞地上。就如小孩看老人，以为只要有钓竿就有吃不完的鱼，像职员看老板，以为只要坐在办公室，就有滚进的财源。 6、诚信 我的帖子是好不容易搞到的，历经千辛万苦。请看完的同志珍惜楼主的劳动成果帮忙顶一下，只要轻轻的顶一下不会浪费你超过3秒钟时间的！做人要有诚信，要厚道，同时也为了让更多人能看到此帖，从中学到或感悟到些什么就达到我的目的了。我在此不胜感激、涕零！

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[whitepad]***400;200;400,200;;*6; m44,89 l46,89,51,94,53,98,55,101,55,105,56,108,57,110,58,113,58,117,55,123,54,126,52,127,50,131,48,132,45,134,42,134,40,135,38,135,36,133,35,131 35,123,36,119,38,118,39,116,42,113,46,113,50,115,53,119,57,123,59,126,62,126,63,127,65,128,76,128,83,124,86,121,91,117,93,114,94,111,94,105 93,106,93,117,94,119,111,119,112,117,112,110,111,108,110,108,109,106,138,106,150,104,160,103,166,102,167,102,167,101,164,103,163,108,163,117,164,118,164,119 167,119,171,117,174,113,180,108,183,104,186,99,187,97,187,95,185,93,184,93,184,96,185,97,190,97,205,87,213,82,220,76,226,71,230,66,231,64,230,64 230,81,231,86,236,92,241,97,246,101,251,104,254,106,256,108,259,108,259,109,258,109,257,110,254,111,249,112,227,112,226,111,226,100,227,99 e|********* m234,69 l240,69,243,68,251,66,254,65,259,65,263,63,261,63 e|********* m291,49 l297,49,306,47,315,46,325,43,333,41,337,39,340,38,338,38,336,37,334,35 e|********* m330,30 l329,31,328,34,328,36,327,40,326,43,325,49,325,53,324,56,324,59,323,63,323,65,322,66,322,68,320,70,315,73,310,74,307,77,305,78,306,79,367,79 367,80,366,81,361,85,356,88,351,89,345,91,342,93,340,94,338,96,338,97,339,98,340,100,355,100,358,101,363,101,363,107,361,108,356,109,353,111,350,111 350,115,351,118,357,122,363,124,365,124,367,125,363,125 e|********* m187,168 l186,168,186,171,188,179,190,184,190,187,191,190,191,183 e|********* m208,139 l226,139,227,140,229,141,229,142,231,143,231,146,233,149,235,155,237,160,240,166,241,170,242,176,243,180,245,185,246,188,248,193,251,198 e|********* m204,162 l207,162,210,161,220,161,218,163,214,166,207,169,201,173,197,175,195,178,193,179,193,180,194,181,230,181,227,178 e|********* m207,153 l207,154,209,160,215,174,217,180,218,184,220,186,220,189,221,189,221,191 e|********* m286,138 l287,140,288,144,288,146,289,149,289,150 e|********* m289,186 l290,187 e|********* m324,134 l324,138,325,139,326,141,326,145,327,148,327,149 e|********* m327,181 l328,182 e|********* m356,140 l356,158 e|********* m352,182 l352,183 e[/whitepad]

顶                                                      ！！！！！！！！

祝楼主好人一生平安，幸福。

顶.....................

确实不错，定一个先确实不错，定——本文来自〖www.521LED.com〗原帖地址：http://www.521led.com/viewthread.php?tid=107&fromuid=973

顶！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！

很富有哲理性。{:1_137:}

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好，顶。。。。。。。。。。。{:1_137:}

[whitepad]***400;200;400,200;;** m79,34 l79,33,80,32,81,32,85,31,91,29,96,28,101,28,106,26,113,25,121,24,126,24,133,22,138,21,145,20,149,20,152,19,156,19,157,18 e|********* m131,32 l131,38,132,40,133,44,134,46,134,49,135,54,136,60,138,74,138,81,139,91,139,126,140,133,141,138,142,142,142,146,141,147,139,147,136,143,132,141,129,139 123,134,120,133,116,130,114,128,110,126,105,124,101,122,98,122,92,119 e|********* m203,38 l208,37,214,37,214,36,221,36,225,35,230,33,234,31,238,30,239,30,238,31,238,32,236,33,235,34,234,36,232,38,231,40,228,43,226,46,225,46,224,49 223,51,221,52,218,52,212,54,208,55,198,58,189,59,179,62,170,64,161,67,157,69,154,69,154,70,155,71,156,71,156,72,157,73,159,74,160,76,161,77 163,78,166,81 e|********* m166,81 l168,82,169,83,171,86,172,89,174,93,176,96,177,100,179,103,180,104,181,107,182,109,183,110,183,113 e|********* m237,76 l284,76,292,74,298,73,303,73,303,80,302,81,297,81,297,80,295,80,293,79,292,78 e|********* m285,78 l285,80,284,80,284,133 e|********* m229,100 l231,102,231,117,227,121,226,124,223,128,219,134,214,137,210,142,204,146,202,148,200,148,198,149,197,150,194,151,193,151,192,152,190,153,188,155,187,157,187,159 e|********* m236,138 l238,138,241,140,249,148,253,150,256,152,260,155,268,159,276,162,278,164,284,166,300,174,303,174,303,173 e[/whitepad]

[whitepad]***400;200;400,200;;** m49,95 l49,94,50,93,51,91,54,88,62,83,70,77,86,66,100,55,111,47,130,36,147,25,158,18,166,15,170,14,171,13,172,13 e|********* m94,15 l94,26,90,34,89,43,87,54,85,68,84,81,81,91,77,103,75,110,74,118,72,124,71,129,69,133,69,136,67,138,66,140,65,143,64,143,64,144 e|********* m81,66 l82,66,85,68,91,73,97,83,107,94,116,106,126,118,134,131,150,151,155,158,159,162,161,165,160,165,154,159,144,152,138,147,130,142 e|********* m103,123 l104,123,105,124,107,125,107,126,109,128,110,128 e|********* m181,33 l181,58,179,67,177,74,177,80,174,88,174,95,172,97,172,99,173,101,175,103,179,109,184,117,190,125,196,132,201,139,205,144,207,146,209,149,210,151,210,152 209,152,205,149,202,145 e|********* m200,80 l200,84,199,87,195,101,195,109,191,125,188,132,185,141,181,151,180,153,180,155,179,156,179,157,175,157,172,155,169,152,165,144 e|********* m132,84 l133,83,135,83,136,81,143,81,149,80,159,78,162,77,166,77,172,73,174,73,177,72,179,70,182,70,182,69,184,69,185,67,189,67,191,66,192,64,195,64 198,63,201,61,205,59 e|********* m207,42 l209,42,211,43,216,44,222,44,226,45,231,46,235,46,242,49,247,51,251,53,254,54,257,56,258,56,258,61,255,63,251,67,248,68,245,70,244,72,242,72 240,74,238,74,237,75,237,82,240,89,241,94,242,101,243,110,246,120,246,129,247,134,247,135,239,135,235,132,232,128,229,126,224,122,222,119 e|********* m223,108 l224,108,227,106,230,106,233,105,235,103,237,103,239,102,241,100,243,100,245,99,246,99,247,97,249,97 e|********* m275,62 l275,61,276,60,365,60,364,61,362,64,359,66,355,71,351,74,349,74,346,77,344,77,343,78,340,78,340,82,342,89,343,99,343,117,345,127,347,139,348,148 349,154,349,157,350,158,347,158,344,156,339,155,337,149,331,143,328,138,326,135,325,131,322,127,320,125,318,121 e[/whitepad]

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很好，感动中。。。。。。。。。。。——本文来自〖www.521LED.com〗原帖地址：http://www.521led.com/viewthread.php?tid=107&fromuid=1902

慢慢渗透吧，性格才是决定性因素

回复 1# 七彩光电

在此不胜感激、涕零！

感动中。。。。。。。。。。。

好贴一定要顶,好多哲理要一辈子去悟